Thursday, January 26, 2012

Halfway to a Year!

(Prepare yourself, this is a lengthy post!  You can always just skip to the pictures, like my husband does, or read if you're so inclined)

How in the world did my two teeny-tiny babies turn into two not-so-teeny-tiny 6 month olds?  I remember being sad when they turned 3 months because that felt like "old" to me but now...6 months?  I just don't know how to handle it!  Luckily, January ended up being another month of marathon doctor's appointments so that has helped to keep me busy and focused on something other than the fact that my girls are not going to be babies forever.  January has been a hectic month for us: birthday parties, doctor's appointments, and my endless production of baby food (you'd think I'm stocking up a bomb shelter or something!).  At the start of January we celebrated cousin Jack's birthday in Ventura where the girls witnessed their first bouncy house--both were intrigued but Emma cried when we took her in so that ended that experiment.  Olivia spent the party cruising Lolo's hardwood floors in her walker--dinging up as much of her furniture as she could :-)  Our next big event was an important one: Reaghan's 1st Birthday!  All three of these girls have a fascination with Mickey's Clubouse (tv show) so Reaghan's birthday was Minnie-themed.  The girls had a great time and kept trying to make off with a Minnie doll of Reaghan's even though we have 4 at home!  The nice thing about this party was when the girls started getting cranky we just walked across the street to put them to bed haha!

After two fun events it was time to switch into "medical mode" as I like to call it.  Having two babies brings about longer doctor's appointments but add to it Olivia's Facial and Cranial doctor and hemangioma doctor and....well...we are experts at navigating hospitals, copays, parking structures, and manuerving our big 'ol double stroller in microscopic waiting rooms and elevators.  We started off by checking in with the girls' pediatrician for their 6-month check-up.  The girls received their vaccinations and flu shots.  After being measured and weighed we learned that Emma is officially off the charts for height and our Little Lu Lu has finally made it ON the chart for weight--before this they called her weight "below the 5th percentile" now she is on the line at 5% hehe!  We go back in one month to get the other half of the flu shot and to have Lu's weight checked again.

The very next day we headed out to the Woodland Hills Kaiser to see Olivia's Facial and Cranial specialist.  This was a make it or break appointment--the final say in whether Lu would wear a helmet.  I had to take her to this appointment on my own so I was a mess!  While I talked out loud the whole drive (about how she would be beautiful no matter what) Lu sat completely quiet in the back, not making a peep.  In typical fashion Lu was a ham at her appointment.  She smiled and giggled when the doctors touched her and tried to rip stethoscopes off two different doctors.  The final decision: whatever I wanted!!  What??  Well, it appears Lu is now only "mildly flat-headed" and that a helmet will only improve things so much.  In addition, the doctors worried that her hemangioma would cause so many problems with the helmet fitting well and potentially cause issues with the big H itself that they felt it should be my decision (this is where I silently cursed Alex for making me come by myself).  As I sat there with Lu bouncing all over my lap (and unbuttoning my top might I add--thanks Lu!) I pondered everything.  I said to one doctor "Is it so terrible that I don't want to add one more thing that will draw attention to her head?  I don't want to selfishly make this decision and miss the only opportunity we have to fix this."  Again the doctor said "Your call."  (more mental cursing)  This doctor then stepped out of the room and the one left said, "Listen, my daughter is 3 now and finally growing hair.  Her head was about the same and we opted for no helmet.  Now that her hair is coming in thicker you can't tell at all that her head still has a flat spot."  Sold.  That's all I needed.  I thanked them and high-tailed it out of there with Lu before I wavered in my decision.  I called Alex and told him I had to make an executive decision but he seemed to agree with me.  This kid will never know all the discussions that went on (and sleepless nights) because of her dang noggin-but now we can check one thing off her noggin list :-)

Lastly, two days after the Cranial specialist we headed out to Los Angeles to have an impromptu check-in with Olivia's hemangioma team.  Now, we weren't suppose to see them unless we noticed any changes with her big H so as you might have already guessed, that means we noticed a change.  Alex had mentioned months ago he thought her eye looked a little closed but it was nothing significant so we forgot about it.  But as I've been filling in photo albums and staring at lots of pictures I too began to notice her eye appears slightly more closed.  I called her team of specialists and they asked us to bring her in so off we went (to the world's most complicated hospital and parking structure).   Dad came to this one because there was no way I was doing this one on my own too!  After checking her out Dr. S did notice the slight closing of her eye and directed us to have her seen by a pediatric ophthalmologist the hemangioma team works with.  So we will take her back to LA February 9th to see that doctor and then go down two floors back to her hemangioma team to discuss what the ophthalmologist says.  The fear with it impacting her globe (of her eye) is that it can cause astigmatism and/or lazy eye (a lazy eye can eventually, in severe cases, cause blindness) so we definitely are going to take this seriously--this is her eyesight for goodness sake!  It's not just a vanity thing about the big H now but a life-long sight issue so we want this looked at.  As I always say though...we were in LA for a couple hours, with Olivia not taking a single nap, and she was such a doll.  She was cracking herself up for a half hour in the waiting room and then unrolling the whole tissue paper roll once we were in the room :-)

Andddd there you have it!  Another month down!

6 Month Stats
(and apparently our scale at home is quite off because we were predicting them both a little heavier!)
Emma: 28 inches long & 16 lbs 7 oz (off the line & 55% for weight)
Olivia: 26.5 inches long & 12 lbs 14 oz (75% height & 5% for weight)

Olivia: she is officially a sitter now!  All of a sudden one day she just stopped holding onto me and was sitting and playing by herself.  She is so hyper and crazy that even though she can sit, she prefers to be in her walker or jumper because she can move wildly.  She cruises the house in her walker--sometimes she likes to push an empty box around with her or she goes into the kitchen and pulls all my dish towels off the oven or she goes over to Emma in her swing and tries to close Emma's tray on her, or she tries to open cabinets, or she chases Dozer...do you see a pattern emerging?  This child is wild.  She also thinks she is quite capable of walking.  She edges along the couch and when you hold her arms she actually takes walking steps.  However, she prefers to be bouncing so you always have to hold onto her because at any moment while "walking" she'll just start hopping and lose her balance.  She is also the world's least picky eater--she has literally eaten everything I've given her with a smile on her face--she still eats like a bird but at least she's a bird with a very diverse palate hehe.

Emma: our Emma Bear is getting so big!  She is no longer on the charts for height and Dad is already doing college recruiting for Volleyball!  She is such a cuddler and I hope that she continues to be one because I absolutely love it.  When she gets up before Olivia she will just lay in bed with me, constantly holding me like I'm her stuffed animal.  She will just sit next to you on the couch and with her one hand she will touch your arm, your leg, reach up and touch your face (all while never taking her eyes off the TV).  Which brings us to her fascination with the TV.  That kid could watch Mickey all day and be as happy as can be.  When she does take a break from Mickey she likes to crawl!  She has gotten quite mobile this way and prefers it over the walker.  She will spend a few minutes here and there in the jumper but mostly she likes to be on her tummy.  She is an endless pit when it comes to eating but she has developed a more picky palate than Olivia.  She will occasionally gag on a food or make faces but then her hunger always wins over and she devours it all!
My big 6 month olds!
No one would stay on their back for our "usual" pictures so back pics it was!
Hehe!
Practicing our crawling!
Napping with my cuddler (don't mind my double chin!)
Look at my sitter!!

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Food, Food, and More Food

 Since the girls are quickly moving forward with their exploration of food I've spent some time thinking about their future food choices. From the start I was very against making our own baby food because as it stands now, spare time is a luxury around here! I had done a lot of reading on it and when it came down to it I just felt I was not capable of doing it or at least doing it well haha! However, as the girls have gradually tried a few things I've found I haven't exactly been thrilled with the baby food choices out there. So I did more reading and decided I would give it one go with the tools I already have and if it worked fantastic if not I could at least say I tried. I headed to Sprouts and grabbed squash, sweet potatoes, green beans, peas, apples, pears, bananas, avocados, and blueberries. Back at home I waited until the girls went down at 11 then I decided to start with the apples, blueberries, and pears. After peeling, coring, cooking, and puréeing the apples (in my good old blender...goodbye margaritas!) I felt like a champ! I moved on to the blueberries-again success! I was a little disappointed how much the blueberries cooked down but I remained optimistic that my final money comparison would still show it was worth it. Then came the pears. Oh the pears. We are no longer friends. Let's just say thank God I did the pears last because if that failure had been first I might have stopped right then! The good news is I learned from that mistake and only lost half my pears :-) At this point I stopped for the day, pretty proud with myself and my several ice cube trays full of baby food. The next day I chose to work with the squash and sweet potatoes since they baked at the same temperature. Those too went really well so I finished up with my remaining apples.  Again, I packed up my tools for the day pleased with my progress.  Over the weekend I cooked, pureed, and froze peas and green beans.  All I have left are some more pears and avocados that aren't quite ripe.  The result of three days of work: one broken ice cube tray, 4 burnt to a crisp pears, one gauged thumb from the apple corer, one sliced pinky from said broken ice cube tray, one slightly burned pinky, and 193 ounces of baby food.  The price comparison: I spent $26 on fresh fruits and vegetables whereas to get the same amount of jarred baby food would have cost me $54 (and these numbers still don't include my pears and avocados...so I imagine it is closer to $26 vs $64)!  ***As of today 1-17-12, I finished with the pears and avocados.  Final price comparison: total of 238 ounces of baby food costing $26 in fresh fruits and vegetables is the same as 238 ounces of jarred baby food at $66.  $26 vs $66***  I have to say, for all the war-wounds I suffered and the length of time it took me, I'm overwhelmed by the savings.  I have also found that I'm now recommitted to making this work and getting it down to a better science so that next time it doesn't take me three plus days.  All in all this whole experiment went pretty well and the best news of all is that the girls have loved everything I've made so far--I really didn't expect any different since they've always been champs when it comes to eating--but still, their approval certainly doesn't hurt my confidence :-)


My tools: 2 pots, 2 steam baskets, one blender, and ice cube trays

The finished product (minus the pears and avocados)

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Christmas


The girls thoroughly enjoyed Christmas!  Well, I think they mostly enjoyed all the toys and attention.  We went way overboard on things for them (and when I say we, I guess I really mean "me") but it was such a fun time watching them that I don't really care :-)  They did really well with the hectic day and multiple people in and out of our house.  Here are some pictures from Christmas Eve and Christmas Day:

Christmas Eve-heading out to see lights again
Christmas Morning!
Ready for presents
Trying to wake up on Christmas morning!
Too many presents? NEVER
Ohhhh ball!!
Tissue paper yay!







Shoes!


This is exhausting ma!!



And yes, my sister is letting her play with a plastic bag lol


End of the night-Lu is finally wearing down and Emma is asleep on Alex

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Festivities & Five Months

     Let me just start off by saying I LOVE THIS TIME OF YEAR!!  I love it so much more this time around because we are getting to spend it with our little girlies.  Also, I love it so much more this time around because last year I was newly pregnant and fairly miserable (i.e. running to the bathroom in between trying to decorate the tree, not eating much at Christmas Dinner, falling asleep at Chadbourne Bingo, etc.).  So this year we have spared no detail-involving the girls in every little thing and maxing out the space on my camera memory card :-)
     We took the girls with us to pick out a tree, letting them touch them all and freaking out when Olivia shoved a whole handful of needles into her mouth.  When it came time to decorate the tree we brought the girls' chairs into the room so they could watch and listen to Christmas music with us.  We let them play with some ornaments but they mostly enjoyed the tissue paper all the ornaments had been wrapped in.
     The girls experienced their first Chadbourne Bingo Party (the annual Saturday-before-Christmas event composed of yelling, accusations of cheating, drinking & eating,  and all-out-war over Bingo).  They did fairly well considering they missed a nap and stayed up 2 hours past their normal bedtime.  In typical fashion, they showed off their happy screaming all through dinner and part of Bingo (more details on happy screaming below).  Olivia took a liking to cousin Nick (5 years)--I think it's because they both have the most adorable smiles and just kept feeding off each others smiles , hehe.  Emma is my lovebug and quite attached to Alex and I and therefore let few people hold her for any length of time.  Small steps baby girl, small steps. 
     Finally, on Monday night, we walked with our neighbors from across the street (whose daughter Reaghan is 6 months older than the girls) to see the street that always wins number 1 in our city for Christmas lights--Wakefield Court.  We are so fortunate to have this street right across from us because as the girls get older they will enjoy it so much more.  Daddy held Emma who took everything in with wide eyes, as I pushed Livi in the stroller.  Livi got excited a few times but until we can move them into the forward-facing stroller I imagine she gets pretty bored facing me!  Reaghan was hilarious--she waved the entire time (like she was in a parade) switching arms when one got tired.  When we got to a part of the street with music she danced in her stroller.  I absolutely cannot wait for this group of little ladies to be a little older and see how they interact with each other. 
     In the midst of all our festivities the girls have been experimenting with food.  At our 5PM feeding they sit with us in their highchairs at the dinner table.  They really only get a few spoonfuls as the whole experience is really just to get the hang of sitting up and eating, taking a spoon, etc.  However, they have shown they are very much like daddy--enjoying almost everything we've given them.  So far they've tried bananas, squash, prunes, and sweet potatoes, with squash being the only one they didn't care for (both of them did fake gagging, how weird huh?).

5 Months
As we've had no doctors appointments this month I don't have stats for the girls :-(

However...we've had some fun milestones:

*Emma finally decided to roll from back to tummy and now that she's figured it out she does it over and over and over and you get the idea, right?
*Combined, E & O are rolling machines.  Sometimes they roll so much they make themselves sick...not fun for me, ehhhh.  I've instituted a new rule: no playtime until it's been at least a half hour since they've eaten.
*Now that Emma can get to her tummy whenever she wants, she is eager to crawl.  She does this thing where she scrunches her butt up and pulls her legs under her and sort of wiggles but she just can't make herself go forward.  It's bad but I enjoy watching her struggle because she is just so darn cute with her butt up in the air!
*Olivia is now a spitter thanks to my little sister who, in just TWO hours, managed to teach Lu-Lu to blow spit bubbles.  Now whenever she is near your face you have to be careful or she blows her drool bubbles all over you...
*We've been practicing "kisses" with both girls and for some reason they both open their mouths wide when we say "kisses" and come in for a smooch.
*We expect teeth anyday now as both girls are heavy droolers, constantly suck on their hands, grab their ears, and neither want us to touch their gums anymore.
*We are starting to wrap the girls with less strength as it is recommended that babies no longer be swaddled by 6 months.  I'm glad we've started slowly weaning them because it appears this process will take some time as both girls are pretty dependent on their swaddles for sleeping.
*Both girls are also getting pretty good at finding a paci in their lap and attempting to put it back in their mouth so we've attached all their pacis to those clippy-strap things...so much easier for mom!
*They both have also started happy screaming...just when I thought angry screaming was as noisy as it gets happy screaming came along--and it is louder, longer, and embarrassingly cute (I just smile at strangers odd looks because honestly there is no way to get two 5 month olds to stop, the word "no" does not exist yet).  I have termed their "tag team happy screaming" as dolphin talk because that's what they sound like to me!
*Livi has FINALLY moved out of 3 month clothes and is filling out her 6 month clothes quite nicely.  Emma is daddy's girl and will have outgrown her 9 month clothes by the time I finish writing this :-)
*Obviously there are a ton of other things the girls are accomplishing but these are just the highlights :-) 

Enjoy my numerous photos (I had to restrain myself from posting even more):
They both LOVED prunes!

Waiting patiently for prunes

Sisters :-)
5 Months!!

Sisters sharing :-)

Posing with her 1st ornament
Ummm this is seriously my favorite smile of hers

In their world tissue paper trumps any toy any day

So much fun unwrapping all our ornaments!

Putting Rapunzel on our Disney tree

Right after this she dropped the ornament...oops!

She promptly stuck a whole handful of needles in her mouth, yikes!

Going to look at lights with my little reindeers! 

I gave them red ribbons so they were clearly girl reindeers, duh!

Flying reindeer!!

She kind of looks like pooh bear hehe

You know you want to just kiss that face, open mouth and all

Friday, December 9, 2011

Olivia Update

Just wanted to mention that I posted an update on Olivia and her hemangioma in the Unicorn Horns & Magic Powers area, for those interested :-)